C.A.C Sunday School Manual For October 13, 2024 Lesson 38, Topic - GIFTS OF EXTREME SELF-DENIAL

C.A.C Sunday School Manual For October 13, 2024 Lesson 38, Topic - GIFTS OF EXTREME SELF-DENIAL

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CHRIST APOSTOLIC CHURCH

Nigeria And Overseas

2024 SUNDAY SCHOOL LESSON

PREVIEW CLASS

UNIT 5: GOD GIVES ADMINISTRATIVE GIFTS AND MORE*

THEME: SPIRITUAL POWER AND GIFTS FOR THE BODY OF CHRIST*

13th October, 2024

LESSON THIRTY-EIGHT

TOPIC : GIFTS OF EXTREME SELF-DENIAL

MEMORY SCRIPTURE

Then He said to them all, "If anyone desires to come after Me, let him deny himself, and take up his cross daily, and follow Me" (Luke 9:23).

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Comment

9:23 To take up the cross meant to carry one's own cross to the place of crucifixion. Many Galileans had been killed that way by the Romans-and Jesus would face it as well. With this word picture, Christ presented a clear and challenging description of the Christian life. Being his disciple means putting aside selfish desires, shouldering one's "cross" every day, and following him. It is simple and yet so demanding. For the original Twelve, this meant literal suffering and death. For believers today, it means understanding that we belong to him and that we live to serve his purposes. Consider this: Do you think of your relationship with God primarily in terms of what's in it for you (which is considerable) or in terms of what you can do for him? Are you willing to deny yourself, take up your cross daily, and follow him? Anything less is not discipleship; it is merely superficial lip service. Are you truly a follower of Christ or you're just a pretender? The way you live your life is the answer.

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Jesus' instruction to the rich young ruler that he should go and sell off his wealth to give to the poor didn't go down well with him. Why? He lacked the gift of voluntary poverty: spiritual ability to give up all possessions for the poor (cf. 1 Cor. 13:3; 2 Cor. 8:9).

Christianity journey is not a childish journey. Not your time or your way but must be totally for Christ. You can't dictate but you must apply His dictate.

DEVOTIONAL THOUGHTS

1. For anyone to walk with God in Christ, here on earth and make heaven, he/she must thoroughly embrace self-denial.

2. The Apostles of Christ sacrificed their professions, possessions, and even families, to follow Christ, and for the ultimate reward of eternal life. Following Christ and reigning eternally with Him would be impossible without self-denial. Remember, the way is narrow.

BACKGROUND SCRIPTURE: Luke 9:23-25

COMMENT

9:24, 25 If this present life is most important to you, you will do everything you can to protect it. You will not want to do anything that might endanger your safety, health, or comfort. By contrast, if following Jesus is most important, you may find yourself in unsafe, unhealthy, and uncomfortable places. You may risk death, but you will not fear it because you know that Jesus will raise you to eternal life. Nothing material can compensate for the loss of eternal life. Jesus' disciples are not to use their lives on earth merely to please themselves; they should spend their lives serving God and others.

BRIEF COMMENT

This verse holds special significance in the context of the spiritual gift of extreme self-denial. This gift goes beyond regular self- discipline and self-control; it embodies a radical, sacrificial commitment to following Jesus and living out His teachings. Those with this gift willingly surrender their own desires, ambitions and comforts for the sake of Christ and His kingdom. It is a daily, intentional choice to embrace the challenges and sacrifices of discipleship. Ultimately, it calls believers to follow Jesus' selfless example and live a life of extraordinary self-sacrifice for His glory and the advancement of His Kingdom.

AIM: To unveil the unpopular gift of extreme self-denial.

INTRODUCTION

TEXTUAL SOURCE: MATTHEW 19:10-12; ACTS 2:44-45; 1 CORINTHIANS 7:7,32-35; 2 CORINTHIANS 6:10; 8:7-9; PHILIPPIANS 4:11

This week, as we go further in our quest to unravel the several Gifts of the Spirit, we shall be examining: *GIFTS OF EXTREME SELF-DENIAL.* The LORD will be opening our understanding to the meaning and application of these unique gifts as they concern the body of Christ. It is our sincere prayer that the Holy Spirit will open our hearts and minds to grasp exactly what He is ready to teach us, and apply them accordingly, in Jesus' name.

BRIEF EXPLANATION

Extreme self-denial refers to the act of sacrificing one's own desires, needs, and interests to an excessive degree. This can manifest in various ways, such as:

1. Overly restrictive lifestyle

2. Excessive self-sacrifice for others

3. Neglecting personal well-being

4. Suppressing emotions and desires

5. Adopting extreme asceticism or austerity

While self-denial can be beneficial in moderation (e.g., discipline, self-control), extreme self-denial can lead to:

1. Burnout

2. Emotional numbness

3. Loss of identity

4. Unhealthy relationships

5. Mental and physical exhaustion

*LESSON OUTLINE*

*I. THE GIFT OF CELIBACY*

*II. THE GIFT OF VOLUNTARY POVERTY*

*What is CELIBACY?*

*Celibacy* refers to the voluntary choice to abstain from sexual activity, often for personal, spiritual, or religious reasons. This can include:

1. Abstinence from all sexual relations

2. Refraining from romantic relationships

3. Choosing a single, non-sexual lifestyle

*Celibacy can be motivated by:*

1. Religious or spiritual beliefs

2. Personal values or principles

3. Focus on career, education, or other goals

4. Emotional or psychological well-being

5. Health concerns

*Celibacy can offer benefits such as:*

1. Increased focus and productivity

2. Emotional clarity and stability

3. Spiritual growth and enlightenment

4. Protection from STIs and unintended pregnancy

5. Enhanced self-awareness and discipline

*However, celibacy can also present challenges:*

1. Social stigma or pressure

2. Emotional struggles or feelings of isolation

3. Physical desires and urges

4. Difficulty forming intimate connections

5. Potential impact on mental health

*LESSON EXPOSITION*

*I. THE GIFT OF CELIBACY (Matt. 19:10-12; 1 Cor. 7:7,32-35)*

For I wish that all men were even as I myself. But each one has his own gift from God, one in this manner and another in that (1 Cor. 7:7)

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*COMMENT*

*1 Corinthians 7:7* Both marriage and singleness are gifts from God. One is not morally better than the other, and both are valuable to accomplishing God's purposes. It is important for us, therefore, to accept our present situation. When Paul said he wished that all people were like him (unmarried), he was expressing his desire that more people would devote themselves completely to the ministry without the added concerns of a spouse and family, as he had done. He was not criticizing marriage-after all, it is God's created way of providing companionship and populating the earth.

In any situation you find yourself thank God. Just make sure you're fulfilling God's plan for your life.

a) 1. Cor. 7:7: The gift of Celibacy is the special God-given ability to abstain from marriage and sexual relations. It is a voluntary decision and full dedication to the LORD, avoiding distractions from family, or sexual matters (cf. Rom. 12:1). Paul gave his entirety to Christ and totally refrained from sex.

b) Sexual abstinence differs from celibacy. The former, also called continence, is abstaining from some, or all aspects of sexual activities, often for some time, while the latter is a voluntary spiritual vow not to marry or engage in sexual activities (cf. 2 Cor. 6:14-17). This is acceptable unto God, if done genuinely.

c) v. 32-35: The unmarried have a greater opportunity to be more committed to God than the married. However, this isn't coming as a commandment, but counsel, according to individual conviction.

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7:32-34 Some single people feel tremendous pressure to be married. They think their lives can be complete only with a spouse. But Paul underlines one advantage of being single- the potential of a greater focus on Christ and his work. If you are unmarried, use your special opportunity to serve Christ wholeheartedly.

Let's carefully look into this:

The duration of abstaining from sex varies greatly depending on individual circumstances, motivations, and commitments. Some examples:

1. Temporary abstinence: A few weeks or months for personal reasons (e.g., focusing on work, health, or relationships).

2. Religious or spiritual commitments: Varies, such as during Lent (40 days) or lifelong for certain monastic orders.

3. Celibacy vows: Until marriage or lifelong for some religious or spiritual individuals.

4. Health or therapeutic reasons: Several months to several years, depending on medical conditions or therapeutic goals.

Research suggests:

1. Short-term abstinence (1-3 months): Generally manageable with minimal physical effects.

2. Medium-term abstinence (6-12 months): Potential for increased libido, frustration, or emotional challenges.

3. Long-term abstinence (1-5+ years): May lead to decreased libido, increased emotional stability, or spiritual growth.

Keep in mind:

1. Individual experiences vary greatly.

2. Physical and emotional effects depend on factors like age, health, and motivation.

3. Abstinence should be a personal choice, not harmful or coerced.

d) v. 7: Total abstinence from sex and marriage is an uncommon gift, and what is uncommon is given to only a chosen few (cf. vv. 8,9).

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Looking at the above point: does that means some church leaders who are expected to be holy and abstain from sex outside marriage don't have this gift? Some ministers are weak and even their wife can't trust them with female members. Those who don't have this gift, how can we help them?

e) Matt. 19:10-12: Jesus implies here that celibacy is a gift to only a chosen few and not all men. He further highlights 3 types of eunuchs: Those congenitally made; those made by men (man-made); and those who voluntarily choose it for the Kingdom's sake. For these, marriage is not an option.

*Eunuchs* are individuals who have undergone intentional castration or have naturally occurring hormonal or physical conditions that render them unable to reproduce or engage in sexual activities.

Historically, eunuchs were often associated with:

1. Royal courts and harems (e.g., ancient China, Ottoman Empire)

2. Religious or spiritual orders (e.g., early Christian Church)

3. Slavery or forced servitude

Eunuchs held various roles:

1. Advisors, administrators, and confidants to rulers

2. Harem guards and overseers

3. Religious or spiritual leaders

Modern context:

1. Medical conditions (e.g., hormone imbalances, genital injuries)

2. Voluntary castration for personal or medical reasons

3. Intersex individuals (born with reproductive or sexual anatomy differences)

Eunuchs face unique challenges:

1. Social stigma and marginalization

2. Physical and emotional health concerns

3. Identity and belonging issues

Yorùbá meaning of Eunuchs is *ÌWẸ̀FÀ*

No matter how a man who is identify as Eunuchs may see the nakedness of any woman he won't have any feeling or have any sexual urge. These ones usually serve in the palace and they will be around woman without having issues with the females.

f) vv. 11-12: All men should marry, except for a few who are called by God to do otherwise-celibacy, hence Jesus' charge, He who is able to accept it, let him accept it.

Let's understand *CELIBACY* among Christians (in the Church)

In Christianity, celibacy refers to individuals who choose to abstain from sexual relations, often for spiritual or religious reasons. This can include:

1. Priests and nuns in Catholicism and some Orthodox denominations.

2. Some Protestant clergy and ministers.

3. Monks and sisters in monastic orders.

4. Laypeople who choose celibacy as a spiritual discipline.

*Celibacy in Christianity is motivated by:*

1. Devotion to God and spiritual growth.

2. Focus on ministry and serving others.

3. Imitation of Jesus' and the apostles' lifestyles.

4. Belief in the importance of chastity and purity.

*Examples of Christian celibates include:*

1. Saints like St. Paul, St. Augustine, and St. Teresa of Calcutta.

2. Catholic clergy like priests and bishops.

3. Monastic orders like Benedictines, Franciscans, and Jesuits.

*Celibacy is valued in Christianity for:*

1. Spiritual discipline and self-denial.

2. Focus on eternal life and heavenly rewards.

3. Freedom from worldly distractions.

4. Service to others without familial obligations.

g) Celibacy is a gift as well as a choice. It is voluntary and no one should be forced into it. Celibates should therefore not be mocked as though they are trying to escape marital responsibilities and challenges; the married too should not be judged as not wanting to be dedicated to God well enough. Everyone's choice should be respected and supported as fellow soldiers of Christ.

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Please take note: don't force anyone into Celibacy. It must be between him and God not by force.

May God give us more understanding on our Christian life journey and His master plan for our lives in Jesus name. Amen

*II. THE GIFT OF VOLUNTARY POVERTY (Acts 2:44-45; 2 Cor. 6:10; 8:7-9; Php. 4:11)*

Not that I speak in regard to need, for I have learned in whatever state I am, to be content (Php. 4:11).

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*COMMENT*

Are you able to get along happily (be content) in any circumstances you face? Paul knew how to be satisfied whether he had plenty or whether he was in need. The secret was drawing on Christ's power for strength. Do you have great needs, or are you dissatisfied because you don't have what you want? Learn to rely on God's promises and Christ's power to help you be content. If you always want more, ask God to remove that desire and teach you how to be satisfied in every circumstance. He will supply all your needs, but in a way that he knows is best for you.

a) This is the special God-given ability to renounce material comfort and luxury and adopt a personal lifestyle of poverty, in order to serve God more effectively. Jesus is our perfect model (2 Cor. 8:9).

b) Php. 4:11: Paul had this gift. He had learnt to adapt to all situations-plenty and poverty. Believers must learn to adapt for Christ's sake, but there are some specially gifted in this.

It's very bad to see that most of people (some ministers inclusive), always want want to have everything not considering others. You want to have 5 when others don't have 1. This is ungodly attitude.

Some people find it difficult to be please with just one thing. They want to have more and more even more when someone is yet to get just one.

c) 2 Cor. 6:10: Despite having much greater needs themselves, those with this gift are quick to recognise and provide for others' needs.

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People with this gift can be easily discover, they are always contend with just one, even they want others to get before they can receive theirs. What about you? Do you prefer others to get before you or you want everything to come to you.

d) 8:7-9: They are challenged by the ultimate self-denial of Christ to readily give for the Gospel's sake and to others in need, neglecting their own needs at the moment (cf. 1 Cor. 16:2). They derive joy in meeting others' needs, irrespective of theirs. They are extraordinarily contented because they have overcome greed and inordinate desire for wealth (1 Tim. 6:6-9).

e) Acts 2:44-45: We see this gift displayed here. Brethren sold their possessions and voluntarily brought the proceeds to be shared with the needy. What did the widow in Mark 12:41-44 do?

f) When one can voluntarily give out what he himself direly needs without regret, hesitation, or being coerced, that is a sign that such has overcome greed - a life of voluntary poverty!

When those with this gift give out anything they don't talk about it again and they don't refer to it in the presence of others.

LESSONS DERIVED

1. The doctrine of celibacy is not anti-marriage. God instituted marriage and also permitted celibacy; He only grants man the grace to follow through His choices between them.

2. The gift of voluntary poverty has been and still exists in the body of Christ today. We should avoid greed.

QUESTIONS

1. Do you think celibates are more spiritually alert and sensitive than the married?

2. What is the spiritual gift of voluntary poverty? Do you believe in it?

We have alot to learn under today's preview class. We all need it. May God grant us a retentive memories in Jesus name. Amen